Sayling Away

A Fellow Blogger Has Died

Grayson QueenI got a brief message today on my blog from someone whom I don’t know.  This person wanted to tell me that Grayson Queen, a blogger whom I follow, had died. His last two posts told us he had to leave work because he was bleeding from his ears and nose, apparently from an infection. He was given antibiotics and sent home. As an anatomist, I know that any infection in the middle ear and nasal sinuses has a good chance of spreading to the brain. I wasn’t told how he died, but I suspect it might have been that.

Grayson was young, 35, and a remarkable young man. Here is how he describes himself from his blog, Posting Tuesdays:

“Grayson Queen is a full-time novelist and painter located out of Orange County, California. His artistic passions range from deeply philosophical to unusual science fiction and fantasy. In his free time, Grayson dabbles with music, sculpture, and various explorations of geek culture. He is happily married to a dinosaur, and is happily owned by two amazing cats.”

Grayson’s  wife, Rara, about whom I wrote last year, is also a  blogger, an exceptional writer,and is currently doing time in a California prison for a white collar crime. She has been told of his death. I cannot imagine how awful this is for her.

You can visit her blog, Rarasaur, at http://rarasaur.wordpress.com/. Grayson would post pieces sent from her on her blog. Rara will be released this coming November.

I am deeply affected by Grayson’s death. He had struggled hard in the past two years with the arrest and incarceration of his wife, a low-paying job that meant he had to live in an unsafe place, and an inability to continue writing. His blog stories were amazing.

I don’t know whom to contact to find out more, to send my regrets and sympathy, but felt I needed to mark his passing. Our world is poorer for his passing.

 

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Sue Vincent
10 years ago

Thank you for spreading the word.

sknicholls
10 years ago

So sad. Two such lovely and loving people.

Daydreams
10 years ago
Reply to  noelleg44

You will find links to what you’re searching for on my blog if someone hasn’t given them to you already. Dave/Grayson was a friend of mine & many of us on another site.
Thank you for spreading the word. People need to know this story. He was a magnificent person.

sknicholls
10 years ago

Reblogged this on S.K. Nicholls and commented:
Sad news on Rara and Grayson Queen. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours. Thank you for bringing this to our attention.

Kate Loveton
10 years ago

Oh my… these poor people have been through so much – and now Grayson is gone. I was shocked to read your post; I know how difficult the incarceration has been for that family.

authorrweb
10 years ago

Reblogged this on Rich Weber and commented:
Well now, this is terrible, unexpected news. I find myself without the words to properly address this. Just, well, wow.

merrildsmith
10 years ago

I didn’t know them or their blogs, but it is very sad news.

Heartafire
10 years ago

oh, this is heartbreaking to read…life is unpredictable, I am so sorry.

jjspina
10 years ago

Oh so sad! Much too young too! My deepest sympathy to his wife. Blessings and thanks to you for sharing.

davidprosser
10 years ago

Such a shame Noelle, perhaps the authorities will see fit to release Rara early wearing a tag or maybe on probation. The news must have devastated her and will leave her feeling helpless.
Grayson has passed far too young, a sad loss to our community.
xxx Huge Hugs xxx

George
10 years ago

Prayers for Grayson and his family.

Let's CUT the Crap!
10 years ago

This is not only tragic, but surreal. How is this possible in the real world? Maybe the world we thought as real, is not. 😮 Are we somewhere in between? If so, where?

Let's CUT the Crap!
10 years ago
Reply to  noelleg44

Yes, me too. I was truly shaken this morning when I received an email with the news. Though I never met either of the couple, it still sounds surreal. Tragic. I can’t imagine how Rara is.

Vera Komnig
10 years ago

Very sad news…

Vera Komnig
10 years ago
Reply to  noelleg44

<3

PorterGirl
10 years ago

So sorry to hear of this sad loss. Thoughts and prayer to all who knew and loved this remarkable chap. May his words live on.

Hugh's Views and News
10 years ago

I didn’t know Grayson or read any of his work, but my heart goes out to his family. He was such a young writer whose life was cut short.

Alex Hurst
10 years ago

I can’t bring myself to “like” this post, because it is just so sad. He was so young, and so much of their life seemed to come to shambles so quickly. A true, and terrible, loss to the community, and the world.

mike7sedona
10 years ago

Please do accept and forward condolences from a fellow blogger – may the departed soul rest in peace!

mike7sedona
10 years ago
Reply to  noelleg44

Thank you so much!

liz
liz
10 years ago
Reply to  noelleg44

You can write to her in prison. CDCR has an online inmate search function. Put in her name — Radhika Jaini and it will say where she is. Then click on the link for the prison and it will have instructions for how to address mail.

T Ibara Photo
10 years ago

This is tragic news indeed. I didn’t have to opportunity to find my way to Grayson’s site, but my heart breaks for him and his family left behind. It hits hard, as I will be the same age as him this year… Thank you for sharing, for letting us know.

T Ibara Photo
10 years ago
Reply to  noelleg44

It is so sad. While I don’t know of their circumstances, I sincerely hope his wife will be allowed to attend. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

yogaleigh
10 years ago

Rara’s current address:
Radhika Jaini WF0124
CIW LA 249 LOW
16756 Chino-Corona Road
Corona, CA 92880

Daydreams
10 years ago
Reply to  yogaleigh

Thank you sweetheart for posting Rara’s address. I was going to do thst here as soon as I read this post.

Daydreams
10 years ago
Reply to  noelleg44

Thank you so much, noelle!

mommermom
10 years ago

Although I am not familiar with Grayson or his wife, I was shocked to hear. Hugs and prayers to you, Rara. I am so very sorry.

mommermom
10 years ago
Reply to  noelleg44

I am certain she will be very touched by your kindness.

Bette A. Stevens
10 years ago

Thoughts, prayers and heartfelt sympathy for Grayson’s family…

Mél@nie
10 years ago

RIP… courage, serenity and strength to his close ones.

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